Abuse

An abused spouse or the parent of an abused child does not have to get a divorce to get a court’s help. Even if you are not married, you can still get help from a court if you are being abused. The court can issue a “protective order” to protect the person being abused by ordering the abuser to avoid any direct or indirect contact with you. The order can also require the abuser to financially support you (without seeing or contacting you). A protective order can also make it easier for the police to protect you. If you want to get a protective order, then visit your county’s courthouse and ask where to apply for a protective order. The police may also be able to tell you, as can the Texas Council on Family Violence, listed on this page. There is no cost for a protective order.

Once you report the abuse, the police and district or county attorney can bring a criminal charge against the abuser if there is enough evidence. You will need to cooperate with the police and the district or county attorney in order for them to press charges. You could also sue the abuser for personal injuries. You should discuss this option with a lawyer who can explain the process and look at the evidence against the abuser to see if you have a good case.

You should also remember that Texas law requires any individual to report abuse or neglect of a child to DFPS. Professionals, such as counselors, family violence and sexual assault advocates, shelter staff, and even attorneys, are required to make a report within 48 hours. This may affect how you feel about going to a family violence or sexual assault shelter to seek help.

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Abuse Hotlines & Community Outreach

The most important thing is that neither you nor your children need to live in fear. The abuse is not your fault. There are many places willing to help you if you ask. These agencies can point you in the right direction. These groups understand what you are going through and are even willing just to talk. But remember that your computer and phone can be monitored—so please be sure to contact help from a safe place.

TEXAS COUNCIL ON FAMILY VIOLENCE

At the Texas Council on Family Violence website you can find information about and resources from your local family violence support provider. You can contact your local family violence support provider for help escaping the abuse and also to receive other services and assistance.

To find help visit: www.tcfv.org and click on Find Help

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE

There is also a domestic violence hotline that operates 24 hours a day/7 days a week. Contact: (800) 799-7233. For hearing impaired contact TTY (800) 787-3224. Text Start to 88788.

For more information visit: www.thehotline.org or use the online chat feature.

LOVEISRESPECT.ORG

www.loveisrespect.org provides help for teens and young adults who are in abusive dating relationships. Help is available 24 hours a day. You can call (866) 311-9474.

You can use the online chat feature on the website or text LOVEIS to 22522. Deaf advocates are available 24/7 and can be reached at the following: video phone at (855) 812-1001 and web contact form at https://www.thedeafhotline.org/contact-us/.